Different men like
different things from their partners when it comes to lingerie and unless
you're going to test all of the variables asking him is the only way to really
get his opinion on the matter. Of course if you don't have the confidence for
that or don't have the time to test his reaction to different colours, textures
styles and types you can go with just a few basic guidelines that will help you
to find something that should suit your man's tastes.
First of all - you
probably want to wear the lingerie to initiate sex, but you need to ask
yourself; are your intimate occasions premeditated or completely spontaneous?
May not seem like an essential question but it is perhaps one of the key
points, if you and your partner like to have set times for getting cozy then
you can wear literally any type of lingerie to insight the passion, however if
you and your partner like to get together after a date and see where it goes
you're probably going to need something more simple that is actually going to
go comfortably beneath your clothing, or at least become part of your clothing.
Not only does this make you feel sexier, which will make you act sexier in
front of your partner but it also means that when the passion gets started you
aren't suddenly wanting to slip away and change.
Most men get more
of a thrill out of undressing you or at least helping you to undress, so a
certain amount of the passion is lost if you slip away to change into something
sexy and come back with something too complicated for him to figure out.
Who takes the lead
in your relationship? Which of you is the more dominant in the bedroom? Men who
take the lead like to see their partner a little more submissive and vulnerable
from time to time, taking on the innocent girl look can help you to get this
type of partner going. Red and pink, or in some cases baby blue, underwear can
serve you well in achieving the cute look, something with a few frills or a
little bow can add the right touch and long socks (a pink or blue pair of
Fashion Socks would work very nicely) can provide the perfectly innocent look
that will drive your partner wild with desire.
However, a partner
who prefers to take a slightly more submissive role is more inclined to admire
the intimidating or less revealing clothing. If you're taking the lead with
your partner you will probably find stockings a good idea and black is
certainly the way to go if you want to set the mood. Depending on your body
type you may want to select from either camisoles or corsets, if you're less confident
with your body a camisole will conceal most of your stomach and emphasis your
bust. A corset however will hug your stomach and push up your chest to add
emphasis to your figure.
If you're worried
about your body in lingerie there are things you can do to boost your
confidence, for starters you should make sure that your lingerie fits properly.
Get your bra size measured before you buy and have it measured annually, as it
does change. Work out a little while before; when you've worked out your muscles
tighten which can make you look more toned for at least a few hours. This can
make feel a little more confident in your lingerie.
As a few basic
rules; if you're not sure what you want go for something black. If you aren't
too sure what he likes go for something simpler. Make sure that what you pick
is flattering to your body type, Baby Dolls and Camisoles are good for drawing
less attention to your stomach and if you're feeling a little nervous it is
always acceptable to accessorize with a silky dressing gown if you're looking
for a little confidence boost. Of course if you're feeling particularly daring
it's okay to wear just the dressing gown. Make sure you let him help you take
it off; men like to do the unwrapping in most cases.
Author Bio:
Kate is a fashion
enthusiast. She currently writes for Cinderella Lingerie a company that
sells lingerie, hosiery and nightwear.
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