Flirtology 101

Upgrade your game with this clever guide on becoming your our own match maker. We know it can be difficult in finding date, so I thought developing a 'how to" guide will possibly turn a few heads and fire up some mojo!

The Beginning: practice makes perfect. The more you utilize your charm the more confident you'll become in using it on unsuspecting suitors. If at first, you lack a little confidence-practice in the mirror or over the phone with a friend, who undoubtedly is open to giving feedback. If you're a novice..try complimenting your neighbor or familiar faces. Then work your way up to cute strangers.

You Are How You Dress; You must dress the part to draw the right attention. Presenting yourself as a lady will lower your chances in being approached by losers. Don't be so eager to show off all your goods. Pace yourself. Dressing provocatively can give off the wrong message and attract some unwanted attention. Switch to a more classier, sexier attire in flattering cuts and colors. Leave the club clothes in the closet. Over advertising yourself is a turn-off.

Smize; Body language plays an important role in flirting. Most men have been rejected when approaching, leaving them a little shy. Reassure him that he stands a chance, SMIZE. Smile with your eyes. No need to flash a toothy grin. Show expression, a gentle touch sparks interest.

Sit it out; When dining alone, choose to sit a nice table, preferably a section where the traffic has a good flow. Avoid the bar. Bring a nice book or Kindle. Have the waiter remove any extra place settings. Sit with legs and off to the side (facing the crowd). Wear a sexy strappy and above all make sure your pedi is flawless. By doing so, this makes you approachable.

Own Your Sexy; Drop the emotional baggage and tear down the defensive walls. Not every man is an APE! But those who are, check them at the door. It'll be a lesson learned not to approach a sexy 'n classy diva for them and you gain extra points in perfecting your craft. Know your worth. Never let anyone declassify you. Set your standards on what is acceptable when you encounter a potential flirt-ees.

Savor the Moment; Have fun with flirting. Don't limit yourself to the only guy that catches your eye. There are other fish in the sea. Learn to interact with others outside your social circle. Adopt different activities that you normally may find boring, daring or just out of your league.It's okay to learn new things. New experiences bring new people. Be fun and creative. Display your uniqueness and be upfront on your goals.

***Hot  Spots To Flirt***

At the gym..smile and ask if he can spot you

Grocery store/Gas Station...we can always use help with pumping the gas or airing our tires.

Ditch the Drive -Thru...get out the car when grabbing a bite to eat. Not only does it make you noticeable, but you get a little cardio in as well

.Concerts or park events; wine tasting or taste of your city event. Try new foods, see a cute guy, engage in conversation. Talk about how good or awful  something is.