A Great Listener...rather than "I told you so" comment, try sitting back and allow him to speak his mind. Men appreciate a women with strong listening skills. Be patient and understanding by allowing them time to process their problems before openly expressing themselves. Knowing they can trust you to only hear his issues rather than trying to solve them shows you to be supportive and attentive to needs. Be sincere and really take interest in what is being said...by doing so he'll be more likely to reciprocate.
Keep Calm & be Confident- this is much easier said than done. We all want to keep the relationship hot 'n steamy, but for some women we tend to hide behind self esteem iron walls. Focusing on weight, looks and size...some of us punish ourselves without knowing how it affects our mates. But ladies, bust open the walls and love who you are. If he likes...you love it!. Being a plus size diva, my body is not sculptured, ripped or has a 2% body fat. I accept that and I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle. But before, I first had to love me and gain confidence. And nothing is more sexier than confidence. Baaaaaby, I'm always dressed in confidence. I look fabulous even when I'm at my worst. Because that is how I see ME!. Introduce yourself to yourself. See the hidden beauty and bring it out. Need help?! Youtube ,magazines, the web... is full of tutorials & tips. You must learn to shine, glow and know you're born beautiful. Nothing is wrong with hiding flaws or accentuating what you have..because at the end of the day its just you and that person and all that matters is that he loves you and you love yourself more.
Being Fulfilled- Women who take charge of daily mishaps without being negative can be a turn on. Life happens in terms beyond our control, so having a positive outlook on how to combat dilemmas not only gives you a sense of "togetherness" it shows him you're able to handle yourself in tough times. Don't whine about what you don't have, instead enjoy what you have. Everything you need is all ready in you! Impressive bank accounts, resumes and degrees don't magnify you as a WOMEN. It's about being happy and realizing your're an extraordinary, stunning creature that deserves great things. Life does often accelerate, but enjoy it just the same when its at a slow pace.
Iron Chef Diva- The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. You ain't never lied! . Although, it may not be the ultimate way to get a man, but you have admit this method has been used to snare men for centuries. It's nothing like a good home cooked meal to get the wheels turning on to "potential wife" mode. Men love women who are willing to learn and/or prepare their favorite dishes. And I'm not talking about easy bake/microwave meals. Those are a relationships killers! It doesn't necessarily need to be made from scratch, but put some effort into it! We are flooded with cooking shows, books, classes, etc..for anyone not to know how to cook. It's no excuse!
Stop Faking It- Nope, its now what you think. However, if you're are stop! This is about being real. A real fun-loving, cool, down to earth person. Fake girls may think they have it going on, but some men only see them as short term conquer, one nighters or jump offs...which in turn we view some men the same way. However, being able to hold a conversation with your mouth rather than your thumbs or not worry about your mascara running and freaking out...might get him to notice you, The "girl next door" is sexy, intelligent, playful and pleasant company. Be real, be yourself.
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