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Make Life Happy

Your are responsible for your well being & happiness. If you're unhappy with your current situation, there are various ways to change your luck around. Life won't always be as disappointing as it is may seem now, and your current hardships will make you more thankful for your future blessings to come. As we grow older and wiser, you're going to meet new people, have new life experiences, and meet & accomplish new goals. But the life lesson is to remain patient &  wait for the good things to come your way. Remember it can't be a drought for ever...after its the positive rain that makes appreciate life! Here are 5 positive suggestions to spring into action to possibly change your luck:

Have a life statement- You'll never know if you don't go!  
Step out in faith and trust that you're going to do your best regardless the out come, You'll never know what you can accomplish if you don't attempt to try. Dreams may seem to be a challenging task, but you must bury your doubts  Steve Harvey said it best, "your dreams must be bigger than the fear". Even if you fail.... at least you tried & nothing beats a failure but a try. But don't stop, keep going!

Try a Different Approach
Its not wise to keep practising the same routine and expect different results. Life changes and how we do things change as well. With that being said- change your daily routine, If you're used to being a wallflower, peel yourself from the wall and mingle . Personally, I have an issue with taking pictures . To me ...I feel I don't photo well. This makes my husband furious! He made a valid point...how are you able to review back on your life without a visual caption? Hmmm....memory, maybe?!? Not likely. He made me realize how paralyzing my fear was. Holding me back from enjoying life to the fullest. Even it's not photo finish perfect. 

Stop, Think &  Resolve
The soles on your shoes must be worn out from all that running.....away from your problems that is. Stop and think of how to better tackle your situations. No matter how difficult they may seem you have to come to some resolutions or life will solve it for it. Look at it this way, if constantly ignore mailed attempts to collect on a debt the actions and consequences of the debtor can be severe. Wage garnishments, liens, frozen assets, etc can make life more difficult. Try to figure out what's bothering you and make the necessary changes. Analyze your problems & conquer them accordingly. 

Keep the Past in the Past

Its not healthy to continuously dig up the past. Whether it be past relationships, business ventures or anything  that reaped negative results. The past should be used as learning tool to prevent from creating the same issues. Yes, we learn from our mistakes, but they should'nt haunt you. You're a different person now than you were 5-10 years ago. And if you keep living things are going to be much different in the future. Learn from your past and push forward for greater successes. 

Misery Loves Company
How much sense does it make to remain miserable in a job or relationship you no longer want?  It's time to make a change, The solution is to leave your current life and start a new one. Make plans to dump that loser, fire your job or change locations. YOLO is not just a catch phrase its a bold statement to live life to the fullest! Even if the financially means are not there to make a drastic change...add it to the list of goals to accomplish or create innovative ways to make more money if your situation calls for faster action.

Above all remain optimistic. You're more in control than you give yourself credit for. All things are possible once you remove the mental limits. Free your mind & the rest will follow. 

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